“There is something beautiful about all scars of whatever nature. A scar means the hurt is over, the wound is closed and healed, done with.”

For some reason, the truth of this statement washed over me, and I began to cry... I've been really coming to terms with all of my feelings in regards to this accident and me as person. It was strange to read those words and feel an acceptance of what has happened, and how much stronger this has made me as a person. I've embraced the fact that no one is perfect and that it is completely normal to have to ask for help.

“Wisdom is scar tissue in disguise.”

“The troubles of the young are soon over; they leave no external mark. If you wound the tree in its youth the bark will quickly cover the gash; but when the tree is very old, peeling the bark off, and looking carefully, you will see the scar there still. All that is buried is not dead.”

3 comments:

Spike's Mom said...: OK I just had to make a comment on your post...you are so right, a scar is a sign that you have lived through something, that you have come out on the other side, and are stronger for it. Life is full of scars...some visible, some not, and I don't even notice yours anymore, because when I talk to you I am looking at you as a whole person not as a damaged one. A whole person who is funny, smart, talented and beautiful with lots of great things ahead for you! And, someone who loves margs as much as I do!; January 28, 2009 at 8:16 AM
Jordanne said...: hah thank you sheila! That is really sweet of you. I do love myself some margs... which reminds me... we need to go and get some soon!; January 28, 2009 at 7:24 PM
Connie said...: Jordy this post is so true. Everything you've been through is a part of your growth...forward progress is good. I think you're capable of the happiness you were experiencing before the accident and the maturity you've gained since all rolled into one. love ya kiddo.; January 31, 2009 at 6:25 AM